Love in Action
“Love is an action, never simply a feeling.” - bell hooks
Love is a powerful emotion that can be expressed in many ways. The impact of love can be profound and life-changing. Through my cancer journey, I have experienced the transformative power of love.
As I reflect on my 28th year, I am overwhelmed with emotion and a sense of nostalgia for the things that could have been. The cards held so much promise - the thrill of adventure, the satisfaction of academic success, and the joy of discovering new passions. Little did I know that the year would be a turning point in my life. In December 2021, my world was turned upside down when I received the devastating news that I had stage 3 non-Hodgkin lymphoma. Suddenly, all my plans, hopes, and dreams were put on hold as I began to navigate this new reality. My heart was heavy with confusion and uncertainty as I found myself at a loss for what steps to take next.
Growing up, my family was my rock. No matter what challenges came our way, we always stuck together and supported each other. It was a comforting feeling to know that I could always depend on them, no matter what. As I was rushed to the hospital, I couldn't help but feel scared and alone. However, my family was there every step of the way. And for the three weeks that followed, as I was in the hospital enduring experiences I never thought possible, my family never left my side. They were there through every test and every setback.
My heart swells with gratitude when I think of the unwavering support and love that my family has shown. They came to the hospital every day, even when I was barely conscious and in pain. They slept in my hospital room with me, providing comfort and support during the darkest moments of my illness. When it was time for my first appointment at Moffitt, they were right by my side, holding my hand and offering words of encouragement.
Throughout my chemotherapy treatments, they never left my side. Their actions spoke volumes about their love for me. My heart overflows with appreciation for the unconditional support and affection. Whether it is a small gesture or a grand display, expressing love and support can make a world of difference to those who receive it.
During challenging times, like a cancer diagnosis, a family's love and support can be especially meaningful. A beacon of hope and strength. It is a blessing to have such a strong and reliable support system, and I am grateful for them every day. The love and support I received motivated me to become a volunteer. I have made it my purpose to give back to the cancer community as my journey continues through remission.
Moffitt offers support groups where you can talk with people who have experienced cancer. Please call the department of Social Work at 813-745-8407 or visit Moffitt.org/SupportGroups to learn about the support groups that are available.